HOW TO STEP UP AND PUBLICALLY SPEAK WITH CONFIDENCE!

Author: Joan Kulmala

Totally-U Image Communications

Have you ever been asked to introduce someone, say a toast or eulogy, give a seminar or give a formal presentation for your business? I suspect you have been in one of these situations during your lifetime and it will not be the last opportunity for you to get up and speak.

First you must understand the objectives of a public speaker, which are to inform, entertain, touch the emotions and move to action of the listeners.

As a professional speaker, I understand the difficulty many individuals experience when asked to speak publicly. It is not easy for many people to get up in front of a gathering and speak without some element of anxiety.

Most speakers whether a new or seasoned presenter experience the pre-presentation jitters. I once had a friend tell me this was normal and that is what keeps one humble. I believe he was right. For I still go through some nervousness with each appearance. Symptoms can range from shaky voice, feeling nauseous, blushing, sweaty palms to drawing a blank with your train of thought. It is different for each person.

The solution: EXERCISE, EXERCISE, and EXERCISE. Take every opportunity to practice talking in front of people. Start with your family ( small audience and gradually increase the numbers), friends, and co-workers. The more practice, the easier it will get. You may choose to join a club such as toastmasters to sharpen these skills.

KNOW YOUR SUBJECT WELL. Do not try to address something you do not know about. Research and know the facts about your topic. It is also a good idea to know your audience.

To be an effective communicator you should be knowledgeable, sincere, enthusiastic, flexible, personable, logical, and on time. You must also possess vocal efficiency and have a good sense of humor.

In doing a presentation your voice is your tool.

Consider: What kind of voice do you have?

Do you whisper or boom?

Is your Voice a Rain Cloud or a Rainbow?

Do you have mumblitis or are you articulate?

Do you talk like a snail or run like a rabbit?

Analyze your voice and determine what needs improvement then practice. Find your own style and discover what works for you.

Be aware that there are Seven Ways – YOUR BODY SPEAKS?

1. posture

2. gestures

3. facial expressions

4. eye contact

5. appearance

6. body movement

7. approach to the front of your audience

Impressions are made within fifteen seconds. As you take your position up front as a public speaker, people are already making assumptions by what they see. Several areas include your level of competency, energy and credibility. Some individuals have difficulty accepting that they should be judged in this manner. However right or wrong it may seem to others, mortals tend to have this unique ability to use their imagination to pre-conclude. Get use to it - that’s life! I’m sure we have all been in this position at sometime.

By sharpening your “public speaking skills” and being aware of the importance these tools play in your future, you can be productive and successful both professionally and personally. You must recognize the importance of effectively communicating with others. It’s not only what you say; it’s how you convey it.

To summarize how to make the most of your public speaking experience:

know your subject, be yourself, relax and enjoy. This is your opportunity to be

totally-you up front and center.